If you have been following my blog for a while you will know that I encourage women to nurture and nourish themselves while trying to conceive. It is so easy to find self-care at the end of a very long list of fertility preparations, appointments and general all-consuming worry.
Over the years I have realised that I need to pay attention to the little things in life and if I drift too far off course my emotional well-being is affected. I worked myself into the ground with my last career and even simple things like having a leisurely bath and catching up with friends seemed hard to fit in as my to-do list grew and grew. Having my hair cut is always one of those things that gets bumped as it is far too easy to twist it up into a bun and forget about it. It feels like my life is on fast forward at the moment and I realised last week that I had not had my hair cut in about eight months.
If I don’t make the time to take care of me I feel like life is getting on top of me. So I thought I would write about the importance of self-care and loving yourself what with Valentine’s Day coming up next week.
Here are some gorgeous photos of me before and after my much-needed visit to the hairdressers. I was feeling exhausted and a bit flat and an hour that was all about me felt delicious and much needed.
So my point is what are the things that help keep you emotionally and physically balanced?
In order for me to keep happy I need to ensure I have time in my life for the following:
Following my haircut I treated myself to the new Weleda lip balms gift bag and their pomegranate inspired fragrance which was spot-on as I haven’t bought myself perfume in years. #Feelingpampered. I then planned a night out with the hubby and we ended up having non-alcoholic cocktails at the Oxo tower before heading to a friends 40th birthday bash. (Jessica who used to run the Fulham Fertility Friends group. She now has three kids and was rocking the party looking gorgeous!)
These very simple actions made a world of difference to how I felt both at the time and ongoing.
So have a think about how you can nourish and nurture yourself over the coming week. What can you do on a daily basis to bring balance to your life? How can you treat yourself to make yourself feel good? What could you do with your partner to reconnect?
P.S. The lip balms and perfumes would make fantastic Valentine’s day gift hint hint to partners or just a fab pick me up. Here’s the link to my online shop:
What are you going to do to nurture yourself this week? Come and join us in the Embrace Fertility support community to join in the conversation.
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Thank you to www.flickr.com/photos/quinndombrowski/ for use of the heart photo.
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